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7 Questions To Ask Yourself When Pursuing Your Dreams


What's your dream? Want to give your vision a jumpstart? Write down your goals and use these questions to speed up delivery of your dream.


1. What's your highest priority in this lifetime?


What's most important for you to experience, explore or embrace this time around? Until you answer this question, your life goals will be off purpose. Unaligned with your inner passion, your intentions will lack the power to attract the people and situations necessary to become a reality.


Get clued into your true joy. What activities did you enjoy as a child? What are your hobbies now? When your goals are aligned with your soul, synchronicity kicks in to guide you to your target.


2. Is this your dream, or someone else's?


Are your goals your own choice, or what others think you should strive for? Do you want to look back in your old age and wish you had followed your passion? Will you regret having "played it safe?"


Is it selfish to go after your own dream? What joy can you give to others if you haven't given it to yourself first?



3. Are you settling for less than?


Are you resigned to accepting less than your full share of love, health and success this lifetime? Have you compromised and sacrificed your dream?


Anything short of living your true passions will never make you happy.


4. What will you feel like when you reach your dream?


Personal passion fuels a vision. Dive into the thrill and exhilaration of the feeling of living your dream.


The Hawaiian Kahuna say, "Where your creative attention flows, so flows your life."




5. What steps can you take today toward your dream?


Don't defer your dream. Set up supports and systems around you to instantly translate your intentions into action. Jump on every opportunity that is in line with your purpose and vision.


Are there smaller projects that lead to your larger dream? If the dream is to run a marathon, train for a local fun-run first. And find a way to measure your progress. Track those little wins-by writing in a journal or telling a friend.


6. Are you telling yourself: "I can't have my dream?"


Most people don't believe they can live their dream. Either their belief system has them believing they can't make a living doing what they love, or they feel they don't deserve their dream. To avoid the pain of feeling they can't have their dream, people often keep their dream so buried they can't remember they ever had a dream.


7. Are you a risk taker in life? Risk-takers are marked by a sense of adventure and passion. They care little for the accolades of the crowd. They are more focused on squeezing everything they can out of every moment. They are not afraid to “boldly go where no one has gone before.”


8 Ways To Combat Fear


Fear gets to the best of us, whether it is fear of failure, fear of success or even fear of fear. All of us have experienced fear at some point in our lives and it can be a real stumbling block that holds us back from being truly successful.


Fear can’t hold you back forever, if you don’t let it. There are several ways to overcome fear, here are my top 8:


1. SEPARATE REALITY FROM PERCEPTION


Ask yourself what is really going on, locate the facts and place them over your feelings.


2. IDENTIFY THE TRIGGER


Figure out what it is in a situation that triggers you. Learning to identify it will help you learn to combat it.


3. KNOW WHERE FEAR LIVES IN YOUR BODY


A lot of times, fear takes over physically. It affects different people different ways. Identify if/how it affects your physical body and do the work to take care of your body. Ex: if you hold stress in your back, you can learn stretches, foam rolling, etc. to avoid the pain.


4. PRACTICE GRATITUDE


Everyday, list out 1-3 things you are thankful for. It doesn’t matter how big or small it is, gratitude helps shift the mind into a positive light, which overtime, overcomes fear.


5. LISTEN TO YOUR INNER VOICE


Monitor your inner conversations. If you wouldn’t say it to a friend, don’t say it to yourself. Speak positively to yourself and remind yourself of your strengths.


6. CREATE A NEW ASSOCIATION


Remind yourself that the feeling and the moment will pass. Focus on the positive outcome of the situation, rather than the scary in between.


7. LOOK AT THE GLASS HALF FULL


Perception is a very powerful thing, and how you feel about your situation dictates how you respond. So think positively and you’ll give yourself a much better chance of success. This won’t happen overnight; practice with just one thought. What is one recurring negative/fearful thought you have? Work on reversing this one thought. Overtime, this will become a habit.


8. PRACTICE BREATHING EXERCISES


Breathing helps center your body; when you stop breathing, your heart stops beating. You can do a grounding exercise, or even just take 5 deep, long breaths at any point to calm and center yourself. It is best to start your day with this, but feel free to practice all day long.


#Bonus

CREATE A SAFE SPACE


When you feel safe and secure, there is no room for fear. Find somewhere safe you can retreat to when ill feelings begin- whether this is a real place such as your bedroom, or a place in your mind such as the beach. This sense of comfort will soothe you and allow you to face your fear.


Please keep in mind, these are just 8 + strategies, not everything works for everyone. But this is a place to start. Start implementing these techniques into your life and don’t let fear hold you back from reaching your goals and your highest potential this year!






WHAT’S A CHRISTIAN WORLDVIEW?


A recent nationwide survey completed by the Barna Research Group determined that only 4 percent of Americans had a “biblical” worldview. When George Barna, who has researched cultural trends and the Christian Church since 1984, looked at the “born- again” believers in America, the results were a dismal 9 percent.


Barna’s survey also connected an individual’s worldview with his or her moral beliefs and actions. Barna says, “Although most people own a Bible and know some of its content, our research found that most Americans have little idea how to integrate core biblical principles to form a unified and meaningful response to the challenges and opportunities of life.”


The Uncomfortable Conversation:

The Barna group also says in the year 2000, 2 in 4 Americans were an actual "Practicing Christian." Today just 1 in 4 Americans are actually a "Practicing Christian."


Definition: calling oneself a Christian, strongly prioritizing faith and regular church attendance.


We now have the most unchurched generation in American History.

A So-called "Christian Nation."


80% of children under 10 years old in America have never seen the inside of a Sunday School class room. That group makes up 1/3 of our population.


65% of Evangelicals today believes Jesus Christ is NOT the only way.

See no problem with same sex marriage, transgender lifestyle and are pro-choice.


Less than 10% of Evangelical sermons will even mention Hell, Sin, Salvation, or Heaven!


Less than 5% of pastors will ever make an Altar Call!


And we wonder why there's so many more shootings today as apposed to the rest of America's history.


It's not the fault of NRA, Republicans or Democrats.


This lays at the doorstep of the Church! Evidently, the hard question or conversation is are we not doing our job?


Are we demonstrating religion or relationship?


What’s a worldview?


A worldview is the framework from which we view reality and make sense of life and the world. “[It’s] any ideology, philosophy, theology, movement or religion that provides an overarching approach to understanding God, the world and man’s relations to God and the world,” says David Noebel, author of Understanding the Times.


For example, a 2-year-old believes he’s the center of his world, a secular humanist believes that the material world is all that exists, and a Buddhist believes he can be liberated from suffering by self-purification.

Someone with a biblical worldview believes his primary reason for existence is to love and serve God.

Whether conscious or subconscious, every person has some type of worldview. A personal worldview is a combination of all you believe to be true, and what you believe becomes the driving force behind every emotion, decision and action. Therefore, it affects your response to every area of life: from philosophy to science, theology and anthropology to economics, law, politics, art and social order — everything.


For example, let’s suppose you have bought the idea that beauty is in the eye of the beholder (secular relative truth) as opposed to beauty as defined by God’s purity and creativity (absolute truth). Then any art piece, no matter how vulgar or abstract, would be considered “art,” a creation of beauty.


What’s a biblical worldview?

A biblical worldview is based on the infallible Word of God. When you believe the Bible is entirely true, then you allow it to be the foundation of everything you say and do. That means, for instance, you take seriously the mandate in Romans 13 to honor the governing authorities by researching the candidates and issues, making voting a priority.


Do you have a biblical worldview? Answer the following questions, based on claims found in the Bible and which George Barna used in his survey:

  • Do absolute moral truths exist?

  • Is absolute truth defined by the Bible?

  • Did Jesus Christ live a sinless life?

  • Is God the all-powerful and all-knowing Creator of the universe, and does He still rule it today?

  • Is salvation a gift from God that cannot be earned?

  • Is Satan real?

  • Does a Christian have a responsibility to share his or her faith in Christ with other people?

  • Is the Bible accurate in all of its teachings?






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